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Not everything is as it appears. When I learned that Connor Frame ’08 was a lower school teacher in London, I assumed he was following in the footsteps of his mom, Kathy Kearns Frame ’73, a now retired but dedicated teacher for many years at the Pittsford Unified Nursery School. Turns out, that while he has found fulfillment in his work, he never had any intention of pursuing a career in teaching.

Connor started at Harley in 6th grade, after his parents, Kathy and Scott Frame ’73 moved back to the Rochester area from Connecticut. The Frame family had moved a lot due to Scott’s work at Xerox and were planning to settle in the Rochester area to be closer to family, for the long term. Connor and his sister, Caitlin ’05 were definitely ready to stay put and stick with one school. Connor said his parents looked at some of the local public school options, but in the end, decided they wanted Connor and Caitlin to get the “Harley experience” like they did.

Connor loved Harley from the start, he said middle school was great, but upper school was even better. A main reason for that was his involvement on the HAC swim team. He started in middle school and continued through upper school, enjoying serious bonding time with coaches and friends. He had a strong connection with Coach Lorie Rick and Coach Peter Mancuso. Outside of athletics, he had several teachers that made an impact on him. Dr. Betsy Vinton, often called “Mr. Feeny” (from the show Boy Meets World) by the class, because she taught them for so many years, first Science in Middle School, then Geometry, Algebra, Functions, Statistics, and Trigonometry in Upper School. Connor said he had her as a math teacher throughout his time at Harley. She was a great influence on him and his classmates, even though he was not that great at math. Sidenote: Connor says teaching math to his primary students is now one of his favorite classes. History teacher, Bill Schara, opened Connors mind about the world and he recalls grand debates in class that “pushed the bounds of our thinking.” Dr. John Dolan was also a great influence. Connor had thought about pursuing a writing career due to the inspirational writing classes with Dr. Dolan, and the incredible English classes with Mr. Alex DeSantis and Ms. Kim McDowell, but his senior year, as he was thinking about college, his work with Bob Kane in the Harley Hospice class drew him to an interest in working in elder care. The hospice class trip to India later that year sealed the deal and he decided to major in Social Work at Skidmore College. Throughout college, he continued to volunteer in hospice homes and even had the opportunity to join Mr. Kane on another hospice trip, this time to South Africa, as an alumnus.

During college he interned at a nursing home and his interest in elder care work grew, but his first job out of college, working at a nursing home facility, was a little less inspiring. He didn’t have the best experience and he decided to reassess. Every summer through his teens and early 20’s, Connor worked as a summer camp counselor at a camp in Maine called Winona. He worked with 7-year old kids and he enjoyed it immensely. Over the years, he had been told my several people that he was a “natural” with the little kids and should think about becoming an elementary school teacher. Now, post college, he decided to take that advice and look into teaching.

Connor was living in New York City when he found a teaching assistant position at Success Academy Charter School and they had a program where you could teach and get your Master’s in teaching at the same time. Connor says it was a very stressful year, but in the end, it was worth it because he had a Master’s degree from Touro College and was prepared to take on a full-time teaching position.

Five years ago, he and his wife Becky moved to London, United Kingdom. Becky was going to school for her Ph.D. in Maternal Mental Health at King’s College and Connor was able to find a teaching assistant job at the American School in London. He was at the American School for three years working with children ranging from Kindergarten to 3rd grade. While he loved his job at the American School, Connor wanted a teaching position vs. teaching assistant position, so he saw an opportunity at the International Community School, moved there for one year, and then a job opened up for a full-time teacher at the American School. He went back and is now teaching primary students. I asked Connor if he was inspired at all by his mom and her teaching career and he laughed and said, “No, not really. It was kind of an afterthought that my mom was a teacher.” He says now he takes full advantage of her expertise and will often speak with her about child development, class room management, and other teaching tips. He says she is an incredible resource and he’s learning a lot from her.

Connor says he forgets sometimes how fortunate he was to experience the unique opportunities he was offered at Harley, but he was reminded the other week during a professional development day Zoom at school. The group was talking about work diversity and the various faculty experiences. Connor shared his experience with the Harley Hospice program and how oncoming death “brings down all barriers” in a human. His colleagues were pretty shocked to hear his story. In fact, he says, “It kind of blew their minds.”

Connor says that his experience at the charter school in New York City and London’s American School, a private institution, are quite different. He says despite 70% of the population of his current school being American, the other 30% is made up of a mix of students from all over the world.  He said he teaches the full gamut of “regular” classes to his students (like math, science, English), but in addition to that, for the last four years he has also been teaching English as an Additional Language (EAL). Since some of his students do not know English all that well, he has to change his teaching style slightly, working more with pictures than words to ensure that students understand what he’s teaching. It’s been quite an experience.

Living in London has been a fantastic experience, but Connor says they will probably only stay there for a few more years, and then move back and live somewhere on the East Coast. He says his family and Becky’s family are there and that’s where they want to be.

He says this past year has definitely been different as a teacher due to the pandemic and he’s actually found the remote learning “rejuvenating” and a great challenge. Unlike the United States, teachers do not get a priority for vaccines in the United Kingdom. He’s hoping vaccines will become available by the summer and maybe he and Becky can come home and see the family. Those standing family Zoom calls on Sundays are great, but definitely not the same!

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Harley’s Approach to College Counseling is highly individualized and student-centered. Students have direct access to college counselors throughout their Upper School experience, but really, each student is part of a team including faculty, administration, and staff. It’s our job to support each student and we want nothing more than to send students on to the next step of their journey at a right fit school for them. The student centered and driven process is wrapped in care, expertise, and professionalism.

We host college reps during times students are available (no need to miss a class) so they can make connections and learn more about potential schools. We also arrange campus visits for classes as field trips, host an alumni college day (where recent Upper School graduates return to share advice and answer questions), and help connect students with our international alumni network. In fact, representatives from schools all over the world actively seek opportunities to come to Harley and meet with our students!

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Beginning with our Grade 11 parent night, we offer informational sessions for parents, including one devoted just to financial aid. Our partnership with families is critical, as the college admissions world changes very quickly and having an expert to guide students and families through the process is essential.

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“Club Rush” is an afternoon every fall in the Upper School when students have the chance to sign up for clubs for the year, and each year it is very different because new clubs are created based on student initiative and enthusiasm.

A few of this year’s choices: Sports Media, Social Action Club, Journalism Club, Feminism Club, Student of Color & Allies (SOCA), Gay-Straight Alliance, Tri M (music honor society), E-Sports Club, Euchre, Key Club (service), Animation Club, Dungeons & Dragons, Sustainability Club, Jewish Cultural Club, Astronomy Club, Biomimicry, and Beyond Soup (social justice/service).

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​Each and every year, students at The Harley School participate in HAC Athletics, and their success continues to be impressive, both as students and athletes. Our athletic program is an integral part of Harley, teaching student-athletes invaluable lessons about teamwork, time management, persistence, and competition.  Our program allows them to develop physically, mentally, socially, and emotionally as they represent their school on and off the field. They grow, mature, and work hard to be the best teammate they can, while creating lifelong memories with teammates who often remain friends for life. 

Helping our athletes to reach their potential are some of HAC’s best assets: our coaches. More often than not, they are drawn from the ranks of our faculty and  have a deep understanding of the personalities and abilities of the student-athletes on their teams.  

We strive to find the right balance of academics, exercise, and personal growth for everyone.  By offering a variety of sports at many different levels, all student-athletes find a sport they can be successful in. It is with great pride and pleasure that my team and I work to enrich the athletic lives of all our HAC student-athletes. Go Wolves! 

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Our Upper School is filled with formal and informal opportunities for students to take on leadership roles. Whether following passions or learning new skills, student-driven opportunities take many shapes.

– Independent study: one trimester, full year, and multi-year projects have included automating our solar chimneys, coding handmade musical instruments, or developing a class on financial literacy for underserved high school students.

– Serving on student council

– STEM: Climate curriculum program, biomimicry program, NASA Hunch program

Clubs

“Club Rush” is an afternoon every fall in the Upper School when students have the chance to sign up for clubs for the year, and each year it is very different because new clubs are created based on student initiative and enthusiasm.

A few of this year’s choices: Sports Media, Social Action Club, Journalism Club, Feminism Club, Student of Color & Allies (SOCA), Gay-Straight Alliance, Tri M (music honor society), E-Sports Club, Euchre, Key Club (service), Animation Club, Dungeons & Dragons, Sustainability Club, Jewish Cultural Club, Astronomy Club, Biomimicry, and Beyond Soup (social justice/service).

Hospice

Unlike this class, death is not an elective. Although it is one of two universal human experiences, our culture often ignores, denies, or misconstrues the true nature of death and dying. What happens when we bear witness to this natural process in the cycle of life and develop our ability to be fully present with others when they need us more than ever? It has the potential to change us deeply and fundamentally while shining a brilliant light on the path of our own lives.

With the support of their classmates, teacher, and comfort care home communities, senior students are offered the chance to care for others who truly need their purposeful, non-judgmental attention. In the home-like setting of a comfort care home, opportunities for learning extend beyond a traditional classroom rubric and conventional methods of evaluation. In this course, students will certainly find tangible “learning outcomes” by studying the medical/physical processes associated with dying and the basic nursing assistant skills of comfort care. The ultimate goal, however, will always be rooted in true relationships and connection, which occurs only through empathy and compassion.

Learn more about the Hospice Program at Harley HERE.

Capstone/Independent Studies

This program utilizes environmentally-focused approaches to education and hands-on learning in order to foster the next generation of leaders through a lens of sustainability and problem-solving.

Food & Farm: These year-long and trimester-long classes are held outside as much as possible, allowing students to become leaders in our various growing spaces. They cover environmental justice issues as well as hands-on work such as planning and overseeing planting, harvesting, and preparation of the gardens.

Past year-long focus projects have included: Creating a native plant shade garden in the Wild Wood area, redesigning our hydroponic system, overhauling Harley’s high tunnel, and improving the irrigation system for the MicroFarm.

Culinary Arts: These classes have a two-fold purpose: to give students practical skills in cooking and the science behind different techniques in the kitchen, learning about food justice, food sourcing, labor topics, and sustainability.

Past topics have included: Examining a plant-based diet, looking at the carbon footprint of different meals and food preparation methods, proposing a low carbon footprint menu to the dining hall, links between food labeling and environmental issues of food production.

Beekeeping: This one trimester class provides hands-on training in beekeeping, how to be a beekeeper, and safety and other techniques for working with bees. Once trained students help with all aspects of Harley beekeeping such as hive inspections, honey collection and extraction, and teaching students in Lower School about our hives.

Students pick a research topic addressing honeybee health and the larger environmental picture.

Social Justice

At Harley, our students learn how to evaluate social systems in order to identify complex problems in society through a lens of social justice. They take a hands-on approach to working for a fair, equitable society by researching, exploring and evaluating different perspectives, and offering solutions—both theoretical and practical.

Our faculty integrate social justice into our broader curriculum to assist students in gaining a foundational knowledge about what makes a democracy function. By gaining skills in ideating supportive pathways they become more exposed and experienced to how communities can undergo healing and restorative actions.

 

Capstone/Independent Studies

Students may create independent studies with supervising teachers throughout their Upper School experience or, during Grade 12, they can design Capstone projects—intensive collaborations with Harley faculty and off-campus mentors—involving rigorous academic study and culminating in public presentations. They are empowered to create their own curriculum, set goals, and work on time management skills in order to accomplish their objectives.

Independent Studies run the gamut from The Psychology of Sports to Furniture Design to The Neuroimaging of Alzheimer’s Disease. Capstones, meanwhile, are as diverse as the students who pursue them: Fictional Rochester, Autobiographical Art, Biomimicry Education, Organic Fuel, and Rochester Refugees. 

Indicative of Upper School curiosity and creativity, pursuits such as these distinguish our graduates in college. Through deep dives of this sort, Harley students master more than speaking, writing, and computing: they learn to communicate, advocate, collaborate, organize, listen, and empathize. 

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